Ken,
You are talking to people who do this for a hobby, not for real life. THerefore, you will have an inordinate number of people who fuss things a whole lot more than necessary if they were just getting along on a day-by bay basis. You can look to MAPUG and find hundreds of people complaining (and coming up with fixes for) the LX200--one of the most wonderful pieces of technology ever delivered to the masses. (And the same can be said for, the Obsession group, and virtually all other scopes.) After all, they have repair shops for Rolls Royces.
By the way, I am one of those fussy people sometimes.
My advice--quit reading, and go visit star parties. Lots of them. ANd use lots of scopes. And then think about what you want for your first scope. (And your second, and third, and whatever--because you will not find one that satisfies every need.)
Most of your questions are about value judgements. They will be answered one way by Ford drivers and another by Chevy, and a third by Mercedes owners, I won't get into them. What you value is up to you.
One question has gone unanswered (actually two, since your question about false color and achromatic/apochromatic have the same answer). A lens focuses light by bending it. However, different colors of light bend to different degrees. A simple lens (one element) focuses the different colors of light at different points. As a result, you will get something in focus, and every other color shifted left or right of that color that is in focus. SO, you see the object, and a colorful glow on either side. This glow is "false color." An achromat is usually made of two elements, one counteracting (or at least working with) the other to focus two colors at the same point. Obviously, you get something in focus, and two glows on either side of the object. An apochromat (specially designed with multiple elements and different types of (usually expensive) glass to work together) focuses all three colors of light at the same point, so you get the object in focus, but no glow on either side. You have to pay more for more glass, more expensive types of glass, and better engineering and execution of the design. Since you have already paid more, they throw in more expensive mechanics in the scope, better fit and finish, and really bump up the price of the scope......That is why you pay more. As you can see, apochromatics are better for what you see, but not as good for the budget---As I say, what do you value?
As for an astrophotography rig for less than $1000, nothing will do for long, but you can start with a small scope on a CG-5, and a short focal length camera lens. (But you will have to move on to something much more costly soon if you are at all serious.)
Alex