Where's Rudy?Posted By James Lacey |
Originally Posted by Mel MakiIt is very difficult but important to keep more of a "farmers attitude" about our dogs. We get them, love them, they die, BUT, we have another one, and continually enjoy them all. I make some effort to not go overboard giving my dog human traits and emotions. I know a woman with a small dog she calls her "little man" and carries him everywhere. Not good for her or him. Should we really say we would be better off not having dogs because it is so sad to see them go? We need to "get a grip."
"Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won't either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning. You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up. And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweetness. Tell yourself you tasted as many as you could." -- Louise Erdich, The Painted Drum