First of all, thank you for all the input. Last night was a great success, not because of the quality of the views (the city really does suck doesn't it), but because of the quality of the people. We had fun hanging out, having an outdoor party from about 8 to midnight. We saw doubles: albireo (that got wows, people seemed especially interested..nobody knew there WERE double stars...all saw color in them, though at first people see white, then they allow themselves to see the subtlety and then they see the colors if they don't off the bat) and polaris (people liked the challenge of it), constellations: cass, ursa maj. lyra (telling them that vega is the star that Jodi Foster went to in Contact is good for a laugh!), cygnus, saggitarius, nebulae: ring , dumbell, globular: hercules.
We spent a lot of time on this as I explained what happend there, but also how to see it: first i left in a low power EP as everyone took their turn to see other stars in the field to contrast the soft smudgy thing from the stars around it. Two of the 9 people actually said, I can see it's a smoke ring already. That was at 60x and I was amazed as I could see that, but didn't tell them they would see that just wanted everyone to see a nebula...you know that something in this frame was askew, then we would zoom in on that something to see what it is. So then we wen up to 128x at which point you don't really see many other stars just 2 mag 9s or so are in there, so it's hard to know IF you are even focused looking just at the ring. I would tell them see that star in the upper left? is it a pinpoint or a blur? they would say pinpoint when it was focused, and then they'd go, OH WOW! I SEE IT, IT'S LIKE A SMOKE RING...then it would kind of be harder to see, but as they checked that mag 9 star out to see it happen again, they discovered averted vision, "hey, when I look away from it i can see it as a donut." I was as delighted by that as they were.
I showed them M13 and explained that though it looked like a nebula (secretly wishing I had a big dob with me at that point, in which case I wouldn't be making apologies, but rather picking up socks from the neighbor's trees

that it was a tightly packed ball of about 800,000 stars...no nebula, just stars like our sun, packed up in a globular ball held together by their mutual gravity. One person saw mottling which I told them was due to all the stars in there, not smooth like a hydrogen cloud would be, that was as good as that was going to get after all. One was really interested in how or why it doesn't collapse to a mother of all black holes?
Hmmmm...continued in next message....